Tuesday, February 1, 2022

So. Cold.

My days have been spent at the desk in the guest room, space heater on high, working on robots, and taking care of things I'd rather ignore, like taxes, insurance, renewing my drivers license, trying to get healthcare, and other such bureaucracies. This is when I start to ask myself, "How hard would it be to disappear and go off grid?"...but I could never do that; friends and family are too important to my mental health.

Despite our freezing temperatures, I've been able to stay socially active. The past two Monday evenings, I've gone to Highland to play trivia with Jennifer, Cary, and Beth; we're not very good but we have fun. I had the girls over one evening for food and drinks, and I spent a couple of hours yesterday afternoon, learning folk dances with a handful of octogenarians. I've had dates with the two scientists I'm seeing, and I met someone new; he's from Asheville but lived in the Orlando area for twenty years, and I agreed to meet him for drinks Friday night. I try to keep an open mind when I meet someone new, so I set aside the poor date texting etiquette I'd had with this guy. I arrive for our date, and as I walk to the door, he gets out of his car, already smelling of alcohol, I didn't say anything, but when we sit down he shares that he was drinking tequila before he arrived. We get our drinks, and I'm having fun talking to him; we have that Florida connection. We order a second drink, and I'm taking my first sip, when he asks if he's coming home with me tonight. I'm thinking, "Did you not read my dating profile?" and I tell him no. He spends the next 30 minutes trying to persuade me otherwise. When he realizes I'm going home alone, he looks at me and says, "So I guess we're splitting the check?" The scientists are both well mannered gentleman; something really important to me. I had a date with each of them last week...identical dates. Same restaurant, same dive bar to play ping pong; both dates equally enjoyable; I'll be seeing each of them later this week.

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This dudes dreads were almost to his ankles. I can't help but be impressed with that kind of dedication.

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Scientist H and Scientist D.

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Cuttin' the rug.

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